Talking+Stick

Ideas and Beliefs Talking Stick The Talking Stick was used in tribal Council sessions. It was passed around the circle, and only the person in possession of the stick was allowed to speak. That way each person present could put their thoughts forward without being interrupted. After all the words had been spoken the decision maker would give their own determination, knowing that everyone present had had a chance to have their say and taking their words into consideration. It was a democratic way for laws and rulings to be made. We often say that we should send a couple of Talking Sticks to Washington for the Senate and Congress to use. Probably every Government in the world could use one! Today the Sticks are used in more contemporary ways. In 12 step programs, especially in the abuse sessions they are an asset, because people can say what they feel and know that they will not be interrupted or put down. In families they are useful, the kids are allowed to speak, and the parents have to listen, and of course it works both ways! (From Beads & Buckskins - Crafts & Social customs talks.) http://dragonflydezignz.50megs.com/littlefeathercenter/edu.html **1.** Everyone has an opportunity to speak
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 * 2.** The process encourages everyone to listen more carefully.
 * 3.** When everyone has a turn, it reduces competition for time and attention
 * 4.** It builds trust and safety in community
 * 5.** The process includes espect for others ideas and contributions.

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